European School Rhein-Main Germany

Dear Scary Guy,

I really enjoyed your performance. It shows kids not to bully in a fun and interesting way. I loved how you walked around and let volunteers come up to the stage. I think that not one kid was disappointed with your performance. I love how you don’t care about how other people think about you. You remind me of my brother he dresses how he likes and does not care what people think about him. Both of you are individuals in a very special way.

Thank you for visiting our school.Since you left our school is already a better place and I can bet that Mrs.Grant does not have as many visitors as before you visited our school. You really influenced on our school. We are working to be a KIVA school and your performance was the first step to one. thank you again for visiting our school and teaching us not to change but to use the nice and helpful part of us. 

Love your biggest fan,

Madeleine from the
European School Rhein-Main (Germany)

I love you Tim

Yesterday was my brother Tim’s celebration of his life. They will lay him to rest in Tucson Arizona. I love you, Tim.






TONIGHT’S FULL MOON Grandmother Moon rises to her fullness, She reminds us to ground into who we are & to remember how important our presence is in the continuum of our lives as we savor the moments that flow. Our ancestors from beyond the veil root for us to remember, to wake up to our lives & the gifts that we each have. You have a chance to bring through the veils a part of your soul that can help you on this next stage of your journey. This Full Moon is forcing you to look at where you ignored your creative voice & abandoned yourself, in the face of opposition. Let her help you honor those places in you that mourn for what never was or what can no longer be, and then move on to the wisdom that comes from letting go of those feelings so you can get on with Life. Be open to new and different relationships but even more important, wake up to your own power and self-worth. Life is short but truly sacred.

His success is just Scary!

12 February 2008
By Sophie Barley

MOTIVATIONAL – The Scary Guy visited George Pindar Community Sports College to speak to staff and members of the community about his inspirational work. Twenty people including staff, pupils, and local police officers were invited to the event which aimed to raise awareness of Scary Guy’s work in the college and the wider community.

Scary Guy has worked closely with the Eastfield school for more than three years and his mission is to eliminate hate, violence, and prejudice.

Assistant headteacher Felicity Davis said: “Scary Guy has done so much at George Pindar and we were delighted to have him back in school.

“He was talking to various people about what he does and how they can get involved in his work.

“He has made such a difference here since he started work with us three years ago.”

Miss Davis said since he first started speaking to the pupils, GCSE results have improved by 20 percent and attendance figures have gone up from 80 percent to 92 percent.

She said: “He has made a big impact on the pupils and they all love talking to him when he visits.

“I applaud his work and want to thank him for all he has done and also to Pindar PLC for the support they have given to this project as well.”

Scary Guy is from Minnesota in America and has worked with more than five million people around the world.

His audiences consist of both children and adults within schools and corporations worldwide.

He has visited many Scarborough schools over the years and he is well known for his work in improving children’s behaviour.

Love for all, Prejudice against none not such a scary idea. We shouldn’t suffer for being different.

The two men couldn’t be more different.

One sports a conservative shirt and tie and conventional haircut befitting his school principal status. The face and arms of the other are covered in tattoos, his blue hair anything but conventional.

Their goal, however, is the same. Zimmerman Senior High-Middle School Principal and  The Scary Guy, are striving to foster respect, love, and acceptance of all people. Mike and Scary were best friends growing up in New Hope, but in the past three decades grew apart, as friends sometimes do.

“After 32 years we’d gone down separate paths,” said the Principal, “but we’re on the same mission,” which was recently presented to Zimmerman Senior High-Middle students. A former tattoo artist, The Scary Guy believes prejudice threatens the strength of the constitutional right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness by all. The Scary Guy travels around the world educating others on the dangers of prejudice.

“Kids are starting to kill themselves for their difference,” Scary Guy pointed out. Revenge, like prejudice, can also destroy, said Scary Guy. “Talk about a disease on this planet,” he observed. “Everyone’s gotta get someone back.”

The Principal said, “We’ve got to start reaching out hands out to each other and start working together instead of against each other and that’s kind of been my message here.” Since schools do not have the resources they once had, the Principal said, it’s time to students to “start joining with (teachers and staff) to do the best we can with the resources… and start making the teachers more effective for you. And kids have to start this whole movement of watching what comes out of their mouths or (things are) never going to change.”

Scary challenged the Zimmerman students to not say anything negative or call anyone a derogatory name for seven days and seven nights. But since we are only human, he added, it is to be expected that slip-ups will happen. When they do, it is important to apologize and make amends. The Scary Guy has worked with people worldwide promoting peace, respect, love, and acceptance of all people worldwide.


Lord Lawson Feature

The word quickly spread. A huge 20 stone man covered in tattoos was in school and something was happening in the main hall. Pupils were already crowding the doors trying to glimpse what was going on inside. Local press were lining up. Photographers appeared in the foyer. Year 7s were the first to meet Scary Guy – a huge Texan tattoo artist whose face was as colorful as his message. The hall was packed with pupils and teachers and others who somehow sneaked in, aware that something extraordinary was happening. And it was.

No-one knew his name.

‘They call me the Scary Guy,’ he drawled in his deep bass American voice.

No-one spoke. No-one dared.

Then he went on to make us laugh, make us think about how we treat other people and how we see ourselves and ultimately challenge us to change our lifestyle, especially our words.

‘Words are powerful!’ he warned.

Before he knew what was happening a Year 7 boy found himself right at the front being shown how to hug – man style.

‘Jus’ come at me as if you’re goin’ to punch me and then ya do this, go like this and ..’

We watched, transfixed, wondering if this would turn into some wild wrestling move.

The hall resounded with wild clapping as they hugged one another. And the hugging was infectious.

‘Everyone needs 16 hugs a day,’ Scary explained and Lord Lawson pupils quickly joined in the action. Even Mr. Reach had a bearhug from the gentle giant as he volunteered to come forward.

The Scary Guy broke down barriers and showed us all how simple it was to make someone else feel good rather than criticise them. He challenged negative mindsets and name calling and showed us all how valuable we all are. His mission? To eliminate anger, hate, and violence. And in true comic book hero style, he succeeded. We laughed, cheered, whistled and joined in the fun. Except, of course, he had a serious message. We won’t forget it.


Scary Guy aims to stop kids being nasty

CBBC Newsround, UK

Would this man make you start being nicer to people?

That’s what Scary Guy hopes, and he’s going round Britain’s schools trying to teach people how to be nicer to each other.

He reckons that if people stop judging others the world will be a better place, and the way he looks is an important part of his master plan.

If you see someone covered in tattoos and piercings you’d normally be a bit scared, but if you listen to Scary Guy and think he’s okay afterward, you might not judge people so quickly in the future.

He also asks everyone to stop bullying and name-calling for seven days, because he thinks it’ll make you feel loads better at the end of it.

And according to Scary Guy, it works.

He said some kids he talked to three or four years ago have called him since and said the things he taught them changed their lives.



Dear Scary Guy,

I just thought I would let you know what an amazing job you are doing. I came across a youtube video when I was looking up something about bullying.

I have been bullying as long as I can remember and have been at some low parts of my life because of it, and a man tells you what….if I would have come across your video before I would have been a hell of a lot happier.

But I did overcome bullying and I want to dedicate my life to help others overcome this as well. As of right I am Miss Northeast Kansas and will be in the Miss Kansas Pageant in June.

Thanks to you I have come up with my new Platform. Helping Kid overcome bullying. I just wanted to let you know you are doing a great job and keep it up. :)

Meagan Johnson


“He does NOT use fear to end bullying he uses facts (found in newspapers for everyone to fear) and then he uses ROLEPLAY!!!!! He mirrors the behaviour back to the bullies hidden in the crowd before him, showing how ridiculous a way of spending your energy it is, he then parodies it and then spends MOST of the time explaining how victims can choose NOT to own the words and energy thrown at them, and the bullies have to really REALLY think about their behaviour and how it does nothing for them nor their victims –

And THEN he provides a curriculum with strategies that help to break down the ingrained ‘playground culture’ in institutions that perpetuates the bullying throughout and into the workplace, strategies that give the whole school (workplace) a chance to behave differently, just long enough to see that if everyone involved just sticks to the new way of being NO-ONE gets hurt.

Children respond to the true raw reality of what is going on, they are much more awake than are given credit for and they can understand The Scary Guy much more than many adults with their own limiting mindsets!

You have been given a grown-up’s uneducated version of something that does no harm and yet you are demonstrating PERFECTLY exactly the behaviour The Scary Guy changes – the mouthing off and prejudice about someone you haven’t gotten the full picture of yourself – passing on just the prejudice and misinformation of another.

The Scary Guy could help you not to be caught in the flow of someone else’s words and judgment. Be kind to yourself and treat others as you would be treated, would you want someone to put this much energy into publishing judgments about you when they haven’t met you nor seen your work in person? Live in Peace and be happy.